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Jealousy hindering empowerment of women – Karia J. Christopher

- says upcoming ‘Real Talk’ season will showcase greatness; attempts to empower
In an exclusive interview with Virgin Islands News Online, Karia J. Christopher said she suspected that much of the negativity that emerged from stories about women online locally came from women who were against other women and felt that this was largely due to a sense of jealousy. Photo: VINO
The first show this season will be themed ‘First Ladies of the Gospel’ and features the wives of ‘men of the cloth’. [L-R]Mrs Lolita Seaton (Methodist), Mrs Marion Turnbull (Cane Garden Bay Baptist), Mrs Karia J. Christopher and Mrs Nolma Chalwell (Church of God of Prophecy). Photo: provided
The first show this season will be themed ‘First Ladies of the Gospel’ and features the wives of ‘men of the cloth’. [L-R]Mrs Lolita Seaton (Methodist), Mrs Marion Turnbull (Cane Garden Bay Baptist), Mrs Karia J. Christopher and Mrs Nolma Chalwell (Church of God of Prophecy). Photo: provided
The talk show whiz, often referred to as the VI’s very own Oprah Winfrey, added that once women can surround themselves with good, positive things then they can engender positive things within themselves. Photo: VINO
The talk show whiz, often referred to as the VI’s very own Oprah Winfrey, added that once women can surround themselves with good, positive things then they can engender positive things within themselves. Photo: VINO
ROAD TOWN, Tortola, VI – “This season is all about women celebrating women,” Karia J. Christopher gushed while explaining that showcasing greatness and empowering women are part of the main focus of the upcoming season of her ‘Real Talk with Karia Christopher’ television show.

The first episode of the new season premieres this Wednesday, October 16, 2013 at 8 P.M. on CBN channel 51.

In an exclusive interview with Virgin Islands News Online, Karia said she suspected that much of the negativity that emerged from stories about women online locally came from women who were against other women and felt that this was largely due to a sense of jealousy.

“So I thought, what better way than to empower women and to showcase each other and to uplift each other. Because I really believe that people sometimes are jealous or envious or upset because they don’t know how to move forward in their lives,” she offered.

The talk show whiz, often referred to as the VI’s very own Oprah Winfrey, added that once women can surround themselves with good, positive things then they can engender positive things within themselves.

Karia said she felt this was a good opportunity to look at women who are doing great things and setting the bar high while showcasing their greatness. “My feeling this year, women are taking over the world, or at least a little piece of it,” she quipped.

From the recordings she has done so far for the upcoming season, Karia described each of the shows as being dynamic and said they cemented her earlier beliefs because each show was great and she learnt something wonderful from each of her guests.

Karia revealed that each show features three ladies and each one of them she explained, has a story to tell. “I know that if you educate a woman, you absolutely educate the world because we are nurturing creatures,” she said.

Now a veteran of ten years on the Real Talk show, Karia expressed that there are so many dynamic, wonderful and strong women out there and many of them are doing themselves a disservice by not showcasing each other’s talents. “I believe that one of these days we can have a woman President of the United States or even a woman Premier [in the Virgin Islands],” she added.

The first show this season will be themed ‘First Ladies of the Gospel’ and features the wives of ‘men of the cloth’. “They had some dynamic answers. I was very interested and I felt that would leave everybody really surprised about the pressures of being a man of the cloth’s wife,” Karia related.

The talk show host further explained that expectations are often much higher for the children of ministers and there was a significant amount of pressure for the mothers of these children as well.

Other issues will also be covered for this upcoming season, but Karia said she wouldn’t reveal much else other than to say that those issues will largely relate to things that impact women’s lives. These include domestic violence and health related issues.

There will also be shows on educators, young entrepreneurs and CEOs among the many lined up for this season.

One of the challenges she anticipates is that persons may view this season’s theme as being slightly sexist, but Karia explained that as women, one often has to fight the glass ceiling of trying to prove themselves against somebody else.

“More importantly,” she added, “in my view, our biggest enemy is each other, another woman… and because I feel that we women are our own biggest enemy, it takes just a little bit of something good so that we can understand that we can do good ourselves.”

Karia said she was hopeful that persons are excited after viewing the shows and are able to learn something positive along the way.

27 Responses to “Jealousy hindering empowerment of women – Karia J. Christopher”

  • Your G's (14/10/2013, 08:53) Like (11) Dislike (0) Reply
    Yes, Karia Keep it coming. Stay Positive and continue to surround yourself with positive people, and thank you very much for all the support that you have given us. We love and continue to pray God's Blessings on you and your FAMILY.
  • VG (14/10/2013, 09:17) Like (1) Dislike (5) Reply
    Tis series is sexist
    • @ VG (14/10/2013, 12:55) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
      another person who comments but knows little. For most BVIslanders it's only what they can see that matters.
    • girl power (14/10/2013, 13:03) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
      It is often painful to see the inequality in our society so long after the "end' of this and the gender affairs Dept and their focus on equality.

  • ABC (14/10/2013, 09:31) Like (3) Dislike (3) Reply
    Thou shalt not be styled as an adulteress. Remember mothers that what your children see you do, they also will do. Allow the seed of the word of God to take deep root in thine heart. Be a doer of the word, not just a hearer. Don't go to church to cover over the filth. But go there and allow the word of God to clean from the inside out. The word of God also states do unto others what you would like them do to you...the second greatest commandment to loving God with your whole heart, soul, mind and strength. A good tree will produce good fruits. But a bad one produces bad fruits. These are not man's words, but God's.
  • yes (14/10/2013, 09:45) Like (9) Dislike (1) Reply
    Good going Karia, I love you, I love what you stand for and I wish you only God's richest blessings. Continue to set the bar higher and higher!!!!!
  • Topic of the Year 2013 (14/10/2013, 09:47) Like (24) Dislike (0) Reply
    I want to hear you on the topic of women willfully and deliberately wrecking other women's marriages, families including innocent children, and homes. I want to know why these women are that evil especially those who had the same thing done to them and know exactly what it feels like. I want you to interview some if these women and tell we the people how they truly feel about engaging in such demonic behaviour, especially those who claim to be christians.
    • Gosh ! (14/10/2013, 11:43) Like (15) Dislike (3) Reply
      Gosh! @topic of the Year 2013- I can hear the "venom" and tone emanating from your blog. I am single by choice but a lot of you married women are at fault that's why your husband/s have to find outside flings. Some women think that when they get the ring it stops there. No my friend that's where it begins. A few words of encouragement to those culprits.
      Stop complaining about head ache every day and night.
      Stop using your body as a weapon.
      Stop putting 'religion' between you and your husband.However, be moral in all of your doings.
      Look good for your husband. (If he wants to see you in a negligee or a hot pants go get them) your bedroom is your bedroom and no body's business.
      Stop nagging and cursing every day, every hour. Read the book of Provers "It is better to live on the house roof than to live in a house with a nag"
      Stop breaking up the things in your home when you are angry. It takes money to replace.
      Go and get checked out by a doctor or psychologist if you find that you have suddenly turned into a "refrigerator." It could mean that you are experiencing some kind of medical or psychological problem within your body like thyroid, depression, peri menopause and such like.
      For God's sake this should be your best time! You have your License from God and the Laws of the land. Be blessed!!!!
      • @Gosh ! (15/10/2013, 09:36) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
        Who the cap fits, wear it. It is your own guilt that has you thinking about venom... Sounds like Topic of the Year 2013 hit the nail on its head...And look at what they call themselves....outside flings? What a shameeee....flings.... If he wants her in negligee and hot pants, he could buy them too...And you are so right, a couple's bedroom affairs is for their bedroom, not yours or anyone else's. You kind of women are just plain sick...instead of thinking to turn away from the evil you are pouring out, you are on here justifying your evil, demonic actions. Blinded and deceived by Satan to carry out his wickedness...and when he done he got them stepping into the church every Sunday and then laughing/giggling at them the rest days f the week. I simply cannot comprehend the likes of you. Tell me then Gosh, how will you feel when another woman does that to you and/or a girl child of yours. Truly tell us how you will feel. Some of you all actions are generational curses.....Be wise and try to be different from your mother, grandmother or whoever that previously practiced such things. Note what some of the Ephesians did who were involved in spiritism - Acts 19: 19. They genuinely changed their ways.
        • Who the Cap Fits (15/10/2013, 11:11) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
          It is obvious that your perceptions are so misguided that you failed to comprehend the entire blog that I wrote. I was trying to be helpful but it is obvious that you are beyond help. I will not "cast my pearls before swine." If my blog was able to help 1(one) lady to take a look inwardly at herself then my blog was worth it. I am not here to condone extramarital affairs nor to engage in any of those type of behaviours. I will say this much, with the likes of you no wonder some men go out. They find peace and contentment there. So go do your homework and stop your pathetic behavours.
    • @Topic.... (14/10/2013, 18:03) Like (1) Dislike (1) Reply
      I really want to know how sooooo low can a woman get when she engages in an affair / lusting after a married man who has made vows not only with his wife but with the Almighty God. I wonder if these women are aware of their interference with a covenant marriage... a marriage that comprise of a man, his wife and God. Just like eve, these women are going after a forbidden fruit and are being deceived by the Devil to partake of such. The bible talks about coveting and loving your neighbor as yourself. Women please read proverbs 6 and 7. God does not tell lies...it is impossible for him to tell lies.
      • Rims (15/10/2013, 19:50) Like (2) Dislike (0) Reply
        Thank you, some of these women who practice such things just don't understand the seriousness of the marriage covenant. They think they spiting the wife but only degrading themselves. Leave them be they too shall meet their judgement! Too many wives and children are hurting because of extramarital affairs. Look at our society, these are perilous times we living in.

        Some men don't NEED a REASON to cheat. They cheat because they want to. You can give a man the world and treat him like a king in a castle, if he wants to cheat he will still cheat. Too much lawlessness in this place.
  • New Hair (14/10/2013, 10:22) Like (17) Dislike (3) Reply
    Love the new look Karia, you look young, vibrant and full of wonderful energy. Keep up the good work, from one woman to another I wish you the best in all that you do!
  • Olivia mommy (14/10/2013, 10:40) Like (7) Dislike (0) Reply
    Great job Karia I agree 110% about women being our own worst enemy. I look forward to the girl power season. Blessings on you and your family dear.
  • Bvi man (14/10/2013, 11:33) Like (4) Dislike (0) Reply
    can't wait to see the show it does be nice
  • Caramel (14/10/2013, 14:17) Like (1) Dislike (3) Reply
    @topic of the Year 2013. Why blame the other woman. The not so happy husband is to be blamed. He knows better, Oh! I forgot he is not happy at home because his wife is hindering sex from him, she always to tired. A lot of married men cant get a good time with their wife because they are too busy wanting what else is out there. She only knows how to nag.
  • wah yuh say? (14/10/2013, 15:28) Like (2) Dislike (5) Reply

    practice what you preach

  • sorry (14/10/2013, 15:41) Like (1) Dislike (3) Reply
    Well Im not to proud of myself but Im in love with a married man he said he not getting happiness home. He wife do not do nothing for him not even cook a meal. He said that he fed up with her. I treat him like a first class king,. but right now I want to walk away from it but im in love with him he take of my home. Please Lord forgave me !!!!!
    • Ajic (14/10/2013, 20:45) Like (5) Dislike (0) Reply
      We all know that your love for this man is based on 'he takes care of my home'. I bet if this was not the case you would have already kicked him to the curb....you all nothing but a bunch of prostitutes
    • @sorry (14/10/2013, 21:09) Like (5) Dislike (0) Reply
      You're not proud of yourself says it all. It is quite obvious neither you nor this married man respect each other. You treat him like a first class king...how does he treat you. Girl, go get a real life. Don't be a doormat. Your relationship is based upon pure lust and nothing else...it is not love...it is simply you got what I want. Speak to a number of these men, and if they are truthful, they would tell you that. Their real love will always be their covenant wives. Remember too that your actions are evil and when we sow seeds of evil, we will reap evil fruits.
  • sea cows bay massive (14/10/2013, 16:01) Like (5) Dislike (0) Reply
    ALL THE BEST WITH YOUR NEW SEASON GIRL FRIEND
  • Thanks (14/10/2013, 16:08) Like (8) Dislike (0) Reply
    I am feeling that same thing now in the work place of jelously, happy to see something positive coming for women from women. Karia, you arwe doing a great job!
  • Home circle (14/10/2013, 18:24) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
    What a powerful and yet beautiful article, sis. Don't mind what others may say. You continue to stay positive in all that you do. I know that there is a great leader in that is truly ready to blossom. Remember who are and whose you are. Love you to pieces.
  • nbc (14/10/2013, 23:22) Like (0) Dislike (6) Reply
    Will the other two ladies be referred to as "first Ladies ? I wonder.
  • Real Talk (15/10/2013, 07:19) Like (2) Dislike (4) Reply
    I just want to empower women to keep a clean house, cook for your family and stop bring bugee.
  • Thankful woman (15/10/2013, 19:59) Like (3) Dislike (0) Reply
    I am thankful for the women in my life who have nurtured me, encouraged me, or impacted my life in any way. For those women who may feel jealousy towards other women, read
    Player HateHer: How to Avoid the Beat Down and Live in a Drama-Free World by Tamara A. Johnson-George and Katrina R. Chambers


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